Wendy Mitchell: What I wish people knew about Dementia

“What I Wish People Knew About Dementia” by Wendy Mitchell is an insightful and powerful memoir that provides readers with a unique perspective on the experience of living with dementia. Written by a person living with dementia, this book offers a firsthand account of the challenges and triumphs that come with this condition.

Wendy Mitchell spent twenty years as a non-clinical team leader in the NHS before being diagnosed with Young Onset Dementia in July 2014 at the age of fifty-eight. Shocked by the lack of awareness about the disease, both in the community and in hospitals, she vowed to spend her time raising awareness about dementia and encouraging others to see there is life after a diagnosis. She is now an ambassador for the Alzheimer’s Society. She has two daughters and lives in Yorkshire.

Wendy Mitchell’s writing is honest, raw, and deeply personal. She shares her own story of being diagnosed with early-onset dementia at the age of 58 and the impact that it has had on her life. She details the struggles of losing her ability to remember things, the difficulty of communicating, and the isolation that can come with dementia. Through her words, readers gain a deep understanding of what it is like to live with dementia and the impact that it can have on a person’s life.

One of this book’s most powerful aspects is how Wendy Mitchell humanises dementia. She shows that people living with dementia are not just “patients” or “sufferers” but real people with real lives. She speaks candidly about the fear, frustration, and sadness that can come with dementia but also about the hope and joy that can be found in the small moments. Mitchell’s book is a powerful reminder that people living with dementia are still human and that they deserve to be treated with dignity, respect, and compassion.

This book is a must-read for anyone who wants to gain a deeper understanding of dementia and its impact on a person’s life. Wendy Mitchell’s writing is powerful and thought-provoking, and her story is one that will stay with readers long after they finish the book. It’s an important read for anyone who wants to learn more about dementia, whether they are a family member, a carer, a healthcare professional or simply someone who wants to be more informed. As my mother lived with dementia, I found myself saying throughout this book, “I wish I had known that as I would have been able to help more.”

Wendy Mitchell’s book is a powerful reminder that dementia is not just a medical condition, it’s a life-changing journey, and we must be more empathetic to those who are going through it.

Overall, “What I Wish People Knew About Dementia” is a powerful, thought-provoking, and emotional read that offers a unique perspective on the experience of living with dementia. Wendy Mitchell’s writing is honest, raw, and deeply personal, and her story is one that will stay with readers long after they finish the book. It is a must-read for anyone who wants to gain a deeper understanding of dementia and its impact on a person’s life.

The publisher, Bloomsbury, has kindly offered to send a free book to the first two readers to write a comment about dementia under this post explaining why they would like to read this book.

PLEASE NOTE: Entrants should live in the UK or Ireland.

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Helen
Helen
1 month ago

My dad had Parkinson’s dementia and the toughest thing for me was seeing him understand what was happening but powerless to stop it.

Kay
Kay
1 month ago

My mother in law has dementia , this sounds so wonderful as she can’t really explain to us about how she is feeling. This book should become a must read for everyone who has someone close to them going through this journey.

Helen
Helen
1 month ago

My dad had dementia and the toughest thing for me what seeing him realise what was happening but powerless. I wish I’d known what I could do or say – my hope is that reading this book will help me with my next encounter with this awful disease.

Gail Griffiths
Gail Griffiths
1 month ago

My sister-in-law is currently having tests for memory problems and is likely to be diagnosed with dementia. Our family are keen to understand dementia so they can support her and her partner. Wendy’s book review sounds like it would be an important part of this process of education and enlightenment.

Mary Gorman
Mary Gorman
1 month ago

My father has dementia and we are all trying to ensure he has pleasure in life still but it’s so hard as he deteriorates. I’d love to read this book as it might help me put myself in his shies more xx

Deborah Fearn
Deborah Fearn
1 month ago

As my mother has just developed dementia and we are all at a bit of a loss as to how we should help her, this sounds like just the book to read now

Scrapmate
Scrapmate
1 month ago

I have done the Dementia Friend course. There are many books available on the subject of Dementia but I am fascinated to read about it from the perspective of someone who has been diagnosed with it. It would also help me give me a greater insight into something I do as a volunteer.

Jean
Jean
1 month ago

I would love to have a copy of this book to help a very dear and close friend who has experienced a positive diagnosis

Sue Tang
Sue Tang
1 month ago

I would love to win a copy of this book on Dementia as my sister-in-law was diagnosed with moderate Dementia last year and my brother is already having to help with the cooking as she has forgotten how to make dishes that she has been making forever. I work as a part-time carer so have myself come across many folk with this awful disease and my heart aches for them both back in Cape Town while I am working here in the U.K. through necessity. If I should be lucky enough to win this prize, I will forward it to them both to help prepare them for what will be coming in the near future.

Trish
Trish
1 month ago

A family member has recently been diagnosed with dementia so this book would be very helpful to offer guidance on how to help them.

Audrey Tildesley
Audrey Tildesley
1 month ago

My Mum had Dementia and wish I had known more about the Illness so I could have understood more

Mary Gorman
Mary Gorman
15 days ago

I was lucky enough to receive a copy of this book – it is such an eye opening read!
So many things that Wendy writes about are resonating with me and I recognise them in my father and my mother in law – hopefully I now have a greater understanding of how they may be thinking and feeling so my behaviour then reflects this.
This book is a must read for anyone who either has dementia or knows someone with dementia – it is outstanding.